Sunday, May 27, 2018

San Francisco Area by Zipline


San Francisco is for us a place of pathos - a place which holds both good memories and great sadness. Fifteen years ago, Twylla and I came to Palo Alto and Stanford University.  Our first daughter Mariah had a serious heart problem.  If it was surgically repaired before birth, she would have a chance to live.  If not; she would die at birth.   While fetal surgery for spina bifida has become quite common, no one had ever performed open heart surgery on a fetus before.  The children's hospital at Stanford University put together a team of specialisists and professors of medicine from Stanford, Berkeley and UCLA who collectively believed that a fetal heart surgery could repair Mariah's heart valve, allowing her lungs to grow prior to birth and giving her a chance at life.
The world's first in utero open heart surgery was performed - our unborn daughter was placed on a heart lung bypass machine and the valve was repaired.  However, her pulmonary artery was atrophied (no forward blood flow due to valve issue) and after this was corrected her heart was too weak to start beating again following the surgery.

Twylla and I spent 6 weeks in the Bay Area at that time.  We traveled locally a bit - and the beauty of the area - particularly Monterey Bay and the Muir woods provided us some comfort.

For this reason, San Francisco is important to us, and we planned to revisit some of the special places. 

Here are some pictures of our time in the San Francisco area:

Joshua tree - on our drive through the Mojave Desert from Vegas


Stanford University


Main Entrance to the Lucille Packard Children's hospital at Stanford
Still the same "Giraffe Tree" as 15 years ago



Sea Lions at Monterey Bay


The Muir Woods



Lombard Street, Steep Hills and the Cable Cars of San Fransisco




The Jelly Belly Factory


Our Campsite at Pacifica


Monday, May 21, 2018

Ode to my Bike...by Twy's Twavels

You were mine - 
the greenest bike that I ever did see.

I rode You -
for kms with my children happily seated in their attached carrier.

When the roads were too steep - 
You had gears that made it much easier for me.

30 til 40 - 
the years of my life that I was privileged to own You.

"Twy, you will probably be riding that bike til you're 50" -
the comment made by my Man just days before You left me.

My sadness -
You were torn from me...by greed, by desperation.

My loss -
You are no longer a part of my journey forward.

My future -
will not include You - my green Norco bike.

I hope -
You remember the good years and the good times we had together.

I know -
I will remember the joy of seeing You for the first time.

I feel -
a deep regret for the years we won't spend together and the way that You left my life.

Take care, my first Love - my first ever new bike -
take care - and may You know that You are missed.

I have decided to forgive the Thief that has chosen to take what doesn't belong.

I have decided to choose this path for my own good - although what was done is wrong.  

I am deciding to teach my children thru this situation about the emotions of grief and how I continually work to control my thoughts so that I don't become full of self-talk that destroys me and others around me.


 One of our last family rides on my dear green Bike in Moab, Utah.


Here's my last photo of You in my hands.
(My little Brother noticed my flip-flops...yes, I'm pro like that!)

My bike was given to me by my Man and my little Boy on my 30th birthday on March 17, 2008 and was stolen on May 17, 2018 without trace or clue.  I am choosing to move on and find joy again...however, being robbed is a grief and a violation in my life.

I recently read Eva Edith Eger's book called 'The Choice'.  In this small loss, I'm putting into practice lessons that I learned from her inspiration on forgiveness as she journeys thru a much more heinous situation.

Family Adventures in Las Vegas Zipline


Our travels to the west coast took us through Las Vegas.  We planned to enjoy a bunch of family friendly activities in the city most famous for its gambling and adult entertainment.

We stayed at the Golden Nugget Hotel and Casino.  It's swimming pool, known as "the tank" is listed on on "top 10 cool hotel pools."   Part shark tank aquarium, part swimming pool, it allows you to "swim" with sharks.  Plus there's a clear acrylic section of the 3 story waterslide that passes right through the shark tank.  Kid factor and Cool Dad factor = 10/10. 







The Golden Nugget is located in downtown Las Vegas.  It is one of the classic Vegas hotels, built (probably with mob money) before the all of the grandiose casinos began popping up on the strip.  The hotel is named for the world's largest gold nugget on public display - 61 pounds.  It is also near the Freemont Street Experience.  Freemont street features an overhead screen with 12 million LEDs - I guess to try to rival all of the newer hotels on the strip.  It is also  the largest "screen" in the world.  It's crazy at night, people are zipline racing under it.



An unplanned fun part of our stay at the Golden Nugget included the chance to watch the Winnipeg Jets play the Las Vegas Golden Knights as part of the Stanley Cup playoffs.  We are not real hockey fans, but when we learned that the Jets would be in Vegas for playoff games 3 &4 while we were there, we looked up ticket prices on stub hub - the cheapest tickets were $330 USD on stub hub - so about $2000 CDN for our family to watch a game.  Oh well, we thought, guess we won't be doing that.  However, it just so happened that the Golden Nugget hotel is across the street from the Vegas Downtown Events Center - which was playing the game on a huge Jumbotron screen.  Admission was free!


The next night we stayed at the Stratosphere hotel and went up the tower to see the famous Vegas lights at night.  The next morning, I took the kids for a swim on the family-rated "elation pool" on the 8th floor of the hotel.  I played a spontaneous game of volleyball in the surprisingly cold pool.


Our misadventure in Vegas happened at the Stratosphere.  Our truck and camper were parked in the oversized vehicle lot.  During the night, someone stole Twylla's bike.  They took a pair of bolt cutters and cut through the lock, two tie down straps, and the the two securing straps on the bike rack.  They removed Maelle's bike and put it on the ground.  It was a downer for sure and we checked out of the stratosphere with some sadness.  I had bought Twylla that bike for her 30th birthday - it was the first new bike that she had ever owned.  We tried to cheer ourselves with the thought that three of our bikes had not been stolen, no damage had been done to our camper or truck, and that many others had lost much more in Vegas than a bicycle.



Midweek rates at casinos are super cheap.  We paid $33 to stay at the Golden Nugget and $29 to stay at the stratosphere.  The price to swim at the Golden Nugget shark pool would have been $140 for a family of four.  Same story with the stratosphere tower admission - about $160.  Cheaper to stay at the Casino than to camp or pay tower admission - if we hadn't had a bike stolen!

Weekends are a different story though.  The same hotel room on the weekend would have cost $150 or $200, so we checked into an RV park for two more nights.  That night while we were watching game 4 of the Jets vs Golden Knights hockey game at the RV park activity center, a retired soldier offered to give us a fat tire bicycle!  On the same day that Twylla's had been stolen!  Not exactly a replacement, but at least we have four bikes again.

One our last day in Vegas, we went for Sushi and then visited the conservatory and water fountains at the Bellagio.  The theme in the conservatory changes with the seasons - and the theme at the time of our visit was Japanese Spring.  Sushi and Cherry Blossoms.  Nice!




We also walked along the strip to the Venetian  Casino to show the kids the replica of the canals, gondoliers, and St Mark's Square in the famous Italian city of Venice.  We had been to Venice years before on a tour of Europe and loved it.  It's crazy how realistic it was.





We took a double decker bus back to sushi restaurant where we were parked.  Maelle counted "interesting outfits" while waiting at the bus stop.  She counted 8 and categorized 2 of the outfits as "extreme."  A man on the bus sitting in front of us called out, "EDC weekend, I got Coke, I got Ecstasy... (snort)... I got what you want."  Enough of the craziness!  All in all a fun stay, I guess, with minimal losses...thankfully none from gambling!




Monday, May 14, 2018

All the Arches by Zipline

We have spent the last 10 days camping, biking, hiking, and exploring Moab, Utah,  Arches and Canyonlands National Parks, and the surrounding area.

Everyone I know that has been to Moab, Utah has loved it, has wanted to stay longer, has come back twice etc.   For this reason, we stayed 10 days instead of only 3 of 4.  It was a priority destination on our trip west.  We knew it would be great here, and it was!

Here are a few of our favorite pictures from Arches and the Desert!

Delicate arch - symbol of the State of Utah and the 2002 Salt Lake Winter Olympics:



A slot canyon near sandstone arch - the cool temperatures and soft sand were a respite from hiking in the desert heat.






Skyline arch:



Klonzo Mountain Bike Area - offering the famed slickrock,  fun singletrack, and great views:



The landscape arch, as seen on the back of those fancy rental RVs:



Canyonlands National Park:  No Guardrails, No crowds.  It's like you went to the Grand Canyon and it just so happened that no one else was visiting.

We were at the bottom of a canyon, taking pictures of the rock formations, the cacti, and the gooseneck bend of the Colorado River.  All by ourselves.  Completely unexpected.  A highlight of our time in Utah.  Mind the drive though - the Schafer trail is not for the faint of heart.

Canyonlands:



I love this picture of Twylla with the flowering cactus on Mother's Day.



Double Arch:


The spectacles (North and South Windows):



Grand Mesa Arch In Canyonlands Park:




Not too many of our selfies actually work out.  This one did though:


One day left in Utah.  I intend to go for one long last mountain bike ride: